Tuesday, July 31, 2007

the 5 things i have to remember

The 5 Things I Have To Remember....

There will never be a situation when everyone loves you. There is always the case, someone will hate you even if it is cos of who you try to be or who you are. Envy, Wrath... all the 7 deadly sins.

If no one makes mistakes, how can anyone learn in life? It is the same as falling, without falling, how would you know how to pick yourself up. The lesson to be learnt here is learning from them and not daunting or clinging on to your mistakes. i have made the biggest mistakes in my life... so have you...
Everyone will someday move away from you. It is either they meet new friends, go abroad or even pass away. No friend will be there for you forever. And, what happens when you fight? It feels as if your not worth befriending.
Trying is part and parcel of life. Trial and error. It is linked to making mistakes. Picking yourself up and moving on.
We are all humans. Why do we keep keeping our feelings to ourselves? It is natural to be happy, sad, angry, and confused. We can't help it. But when we feel, people say all sorts things.

the failure many counsellors or advisors suffer is that they are deemed as hypocrites, telling their clients to be something they are not

Posted by Alexander Thaddeus Kow at 7/31/2007 07:40:00 pm